1. Evaluate your discretion. To successfully cheat, you must be prepared to keep your infidelity a secret for the duration of your relationship. In some cases, this could mean a lifetime. Before you decide to cheat, be sure that you can keep such a giant secret.
2. Hide your cheating. Avoid the common hangouts of your boyfriend or his friends. Going to movies, concerts or other dark places with large crowds are the best places for cheating. You and your hidden lover become lost in the crowd. Quiet evenings spent in your lover's home or a neutral place is another good choice.
3. Tell you lover knows that you have a boyfriend. Then the lover is more likely to understand your infrequent phone calls, periods of absence and your need for secrecy. Many men will have no problem with this situation.
4. Eliminate unexpected interactions between your lover and your boyfriend. Don't give your lover your address. Your boyfriend will suspect that you are cheating if a bouquet of flowers shows up at the door. Your home should be a comfortable environment where you never have to worry about unexpected visitors.
5. Give your cell phone number to your lover, but not your land line phone. When you program his number into your phone, put in an alias which your boyfriend will be unlikely to answer, such as Visa Card.
6. Tell a girlfriend about your cheating so that she might be a back-up plan in times of emergency. Let her know each time you go out with your lover so that she can say that you were with her. Having a friend to talk to can also reduce the anxiety of a hidden affair.
7. Watch out for the little details. Note the lingering scents of cologne, alcohol or cigarette smoke (especially if you don't smoke). Take a shower after your secret lover and before seeing your boyfriend. Don't accept gifts from your lover since your boyfriend might find them.
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